The Own It Blog

 YOUR POWER. YOUR CHOICE. 

with Nicole Hollar

The Own It Blog

 YOUR POWER. YOUR CHOICE. 

with Nicole Hollar

Signs You Are Reacting to Emotional Baggage accountability mindset personal development wellness Sep 25, 2026

TL;DR: When your reaction feels much bigger than the moment that triggered it, something else may be coming along for the ride. Nicole Hollar, behavior change keynote speaker and integrative life coac...

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Why Avoiding Conflict Creates More Conflict accountability agency personal development workplace Sep 24, 2026

TL;DR: Avoiding conflict doesn’t make it disappear. It often gives resentment, assumptions, and unspoken expectations more time to build, and more ways to leak out sideways. Nicole Hollar, behavior ch...

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Why Listening Often Beats Problem-Solving accountability agency personal development Sep 23, 2026

TL;DR: Active listening isn’t about solving the other person’s problem. It’s about listening in a way that helps them feel genuinely understood rather than managed. Nicole Hollar, behavior change keyn...

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How to Set Boundaries at Work accountability agency workplace Sep 21, 2026

TL;DR: Setting a boundary at work is often easier than holding it when someone reacts badly. The discomfort that follows can make even a reasonable boundary suddenly feel negotiable. Nicole Hollar, be...

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“I Don’t Have Time” Is Rarely About Time accountability mindset workplace Sep 18, 2026

TL;DR: “I don’t have time” sounds like a scheduling problem, but often the calendar is revealing what has already been prioritized. Nicole Hollar, behavior change keynote speaker and integrative life ...

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Who Told You That Wasn't Your Job? A Look at the Walls We Build Ourselves accountability agency workplace Sep 14, 2026

TL;DR: Saying “that’s not my part of the project” can look like a simple division of responsibility, but repeated often enough, those decisions create the very silos people blame on the organization. ...

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Creating Quality Relationships with Authentic Communication accountability mindset Aug 24, 2026

Learning to speak your truth in a way that fosters understanding, connection, and mutual respect in a world often dominated by noise and superficial exchanges has its challenges. It is a topic I often...

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Cultivating Awareness and Embracing Accountability accountability mindset personal development Aug 19, 2026

In a world that often feels like a whirlwind of commitments and distractions, taking a moment to reconnect with ourselves becomes not just a luxury but a necessity.

How are Awareness and Accountabili...

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Mastering Motivation: Choose Your Direction Wisely accountability mindset personal development Jul 21, 2026

Motivation is the driving force behind our actions and decisions. But have you ever stopped to consider the direction your motivation is taking you?

 

Motivation strategies can be divided into two c...

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